Better to bail out before you drown. A one-sided relationship will eventually hit the rocks when you get tired of giving and getting nothing in return. No one is perfect, we all make mistakes. Every relationship is going to have its ups and downs. Sometimes arguments escalate and both of you might say things you later regret. If he forgets to do something he promised he will, or messes up in some way or another, does he take responsibility for his oversights.
Or does he brush you off.
Drummers are usually the strongest, quietest and most mysterious members of bands. They often spontaneously combust, too.Celebs Go Dating - FULL Episode - Series 1, Episode 1
So of course, they sometimes get the best talent, as they say. Practice those drums, kiddies.